Success is always a reason to
celebrate: Get excited about weight loss
Congratulations! You are on a
weight loss program, weighing yourself every day and you have finally succeeded
in losing weight. That is fantastic!
Making the decision to lose
weight is never an easy one. Many people strive for weight loss and find that no matter what they attempt to do to lose weight, those excess pounds come back on and so, achieving any degree of success in weight loss is a
reason to celebrate.
Success is always a reason to
celebrate.
"But how can I celebrate
and not gain my weight back?"
Weight loss in itself is not
sufficient, as what needs to go hand in hand with weight loss is weight
management. Weight management techniques allow room for celebration, but
celebration in a way that the excess pounds do not return. It is only common sense. Why
waste time doing something, only to have to do it all over again? That would
appear to be an exercise in futility.
The anticipation of a celebration is a reason to get excited. But, this kind of a celebration must operate on the basic principle of ‘reward yourself rightly, when you achieve success’. It is not a reward and punishment kind of a celebration.
Rewards can consist of many
things like the following:
I will buy a new outfit for
myself, when I have lost 10 pounds.
Buying a sharp, new outfit will
make you feel good and look smart.
I will spend the evening at my
favorite place, with a supportive friend, when I have lost 20 pounds.
Looking good and feeling smart,
will be an excellent incentive for an evening out. Wearing that new outfit will
make you feel good enough so that you probably will not over indulge, because
you know that if you do, that outfit will not fit you much longer. You will be
encouraged to eat and drink in a way that maintains your weight helps you to
drop more pounds. Having a supportive friend will give you encouragement. You might find that you have a weight loss and management buddy
for life.
I will go for a trip or a
vacation, some place I have always wanted to go, when I have lost 30
pounds. I
may go by myself or with someone who I know is going to be proud of
me and happy for me.
Getting beyond that first time
out as a reward, gives you added incentive to continue. You know that if you
can do this one night out successfully, you can do a trip or vacation
successfully, also. It is always a challenge to try something like this alone,
but if that seems too difficult, why not take someone else along?
It is up to you to decide what appropriate rewards will be, as no one can determine your rewards for
you. If you designate the rewards, you are going to be more inclined to obtain
them, than if someone else takes that responsibility for you. None of your rewards need to be
food or drink rewards, although you might want to include them at times.
"But, what if I don't
succeed?"
Here are things you can do, if you are not succeeding.
Have a physical examination:
There is the possibility
of not succeeding when you are attempting to lose weight. If you are doing all
of the things you know you should, in order to lose weight and
nothing is happening, consider going to your doctor for a complete physical.
Discuss the problem with him or her. There may be medical concerns that need to
be addressed. Find out what your ideal weight should be. It may be of benefit
to you to keep track of everything you are eating and take that with you
when you see your physician.
Increase your exercise
Increasing your exercise can be
a major factor in weight loss and weight management. Even if you do reduce caloric
intake, but do not have exercise on a regular basis, your weight may not
drop or it may drop slowly. You may need to change the kind of exercise
that you are doing. Have you ever engaged in dance exercise? That is fun.
Increase your fluids
Increase the amount of water you
are drinking. Water is important for weight loss and management. Normally, a
person should drink about eight glasses of water per day. Some people retain a
lot of the water that they drink and thus, it is a good idea to keep a record
of your fluid intake and output, to see if you are retaining liquid. You may
need to include foods in your diet that will help you get rid of fluid. Two of
these are cucumber slices and celery sticks.
Get back on track
Not succeeding is not a reason
to celebrate. It is a reason to get back on track and needs to be taken
seriously. Instead of giving up and reverting to old behavior patterns, immediately
get back to the weight loss or weight management program you started. Do not get
discouraged.
Double check your portion size
Take a serious look at what you
are eating and how large your portion size is, when you eat. Most people tend
to overload their plates, so instead of using a large plate, use a smaller
plate. Gradually cut back further on your portion size. Find out how large a
suitable portion for a person of your height and weight should be and let that
be the amount that you consume at one sitting. Find a smaller cup too, like a
teacup instead of a huge mug.
Don't clean your plate!
Most of us have been taught to
clean our plates. Guess what. You are on a weight loss and management program,
of your own volition. You do not have to clean your plate. If you eat until you
feel full and then, stop eating, you will more than likely find that you gain
better control of your weight. You might want to eat more, but your body is
telling you that you do not need to eat any more, so listen to your body. Stop
eating when your body tells you that it is full. Save the rest for later.
Find rewards that excite you!
More about rewards. When you
make a list of possible rewards, find ones that excite you. For example, buy
some tickets to a concert, make a long distance call to someone you love or get
a book that you have wanted to read forever and a day, from the library. How
about sending your self some flowers or meeting someone new? Maybe buy a brand
new scale with the money that you save.
Find specific rewards that encourage you to be more physically active, because if you increase your
activity level, you will lose more weight. Try out a new bicycle or invest in
some new runners. How about buying smaller designer jeans or a brand new, jogging suit?
Purchase a different bathing suit, one that is more flattering to your new
figure than your old bathing suit? Getting a dog to walk everyday, might be beneficial
to you, in more ways than one.
Making a new dress that is one
size smaller will help you to think positively. Try doing other things that
help you to look more attractive, like getting a new hairdo, having a facial,
going to a health spa, joining a gym or visiting a tanning salon.
Don't burden yourself with guilt.
Don't burden yourself with guilt.
Guilt and punishment are not on
the agenda for weight loss and management. If you carry guilt around with you,
it will only weigh you down, so give it all to God and don't take it back.
There is no need to punish yourself, even though you might feel that is what
you deserve. Punishment only brings on more pain.
Find more appropriate rewards
With respect to appropriate
rewards, don't reward yourself with sweets or high caloric foods, because they
are going to increase the problem and not cause it to disappear. If you need
to have something sweet, have one candy instead of a whole bag of candy or one
chocolate, instead of the whole box. Do the same thing with cookies and cake.
Eat one cookie, instead of a dozen or one small portion of cake, instead of a
huge piece. Have ice cream, but watch the portion size. Find lower
calorie ice cream or frozen yogurt. It is good,
Buy only healthy snacks!
Buy the kinds of snacks that do
not cause you to gain weight. Things like fruit, popcorn, nuts, crackers and
cheese and veggies make great snacks. When you eat these, make sure that you
chew them well. Enjoy every single bite.
In time, you may learn not to
put anything in your cupboard for snacks, that is not healthy food. If you
absolutely have to have a snack, make a point of walking a mile to the store to
get it. By the time you get back home, you will have walked two miles. Treat
yourself daily to fresh air and exercise. You will be glad that you did. Be
good to yourself.
While there are dozens
of other ways that you can reward yourself for your mini-successes, the
ultimate goal is to succeed. That is something to get excited about. What will
you do to celebrate that?
Determine your reward and then go for it.
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